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Friedan offers several suggestions for what American society must do to reverse the harmful effects of the feminine mystique. To help women see that a different kind of life is possible, she offers examples of women who have chosen vibrant lives with careers and activities that allow them to develop identities independent of their families, ranging from white-collar work to artistic pursuits like painting or music. “The first step,” she writes, “is to see housework for what it is—not a career, but something that must be done as quickly and efficiently as possible” (413). Women must also understand their husbands as life partners, not as people who can supply them with an identity.
Next, Friedan advocates for careers for women, but not just any careers; women must look for work “equal to their actual capacity” (416), in contrast to many of the activities housewives use to kill time. Another pillar of Friedan’s vision is increased incentive for women to attain full, rigorous post-secondary education. She suggests legislation similar to the post-World War II GI Bill that would offer financial support to women who pursue higher education. Further, colleges and universities must stop the unfair practice of barring part-time coursework, as this makes it virtually impossible for women with children to attend classes.
Friedan ends the book with a hopeful vision for the future. If American society can enact some of the plans she has laid out in this chapter, life will improve not just for women but for everyone. Men will enjoy partners raised to be people that they can respect as equals and “will not fear the love and strength of women, nor need another’s weakness to prove their own masculinity” (456). Every industry in the nation will benefit from the participation of millions of women whose capabilities were previously stifled. These changes will gradually come to pass as women realize that they can trade in lives of emptiness for lives of abundance.
Friedan’s final chapter outlines solutions for the problem of the feminine mystique at both the individual and the societal levels. While she makes clear that her top priority is for women to get high-quality educations so that they can pursue careers, she also allows room for the possibility that a career will not be a cure-all and that others might find fulfillment in different ways. Like her opening chapter, her closing chapter contains ideas that apply largely to middle- or upper-class women, even though Friedan never states this explicitly. When she advises that women pursue not just any career but a career that meets and challenges their intellectual capacities, she ignores the millions of women who do not have this option because their financial precarity demands they take any job they can get. She also ignores the millions of women of color who would face significant, often insurmountable prejudice from hiring agents in intellectually stimulating white-collar fields.
Despite the limited field of women her suggestions apply to, many of Friedan’s proposals insist on bold, substantial changes in society—so bold, in fact, that they are still debated and contested today. For instance, Friedan’s proposal that colleges and universities let women enroll part-time shows an awareness that more robust options for childcare would be necessary if women were to enter the workforce. Decades later, many activists and legislators are still pushing for access to affordable childcare for all.
The Feminine Mystique catapulted Friedan to national prominence, which led to her tenure as the founder and first president of the National Organization for Women, an organization that continues to advocate for women’s rights and opportunities today. While many people in the contemporary feminist movement would quibble with some of its claims or question the scholars on which several of its chapters rely, the book’s role in energizing the feminist movement of the 1960s is undeniable.