A Bird in the House

Investigate the concept of true love that Vanessa witnesses in her family. What is “true love” in this context? How do Vanessa’s grandparents’ and parents’ relationships shape her understanding of the phrase?

Discuss Vanessa’s disdain for inauthenticity. What are the origins of this aversion, and how is it reflected in her interactions with others? What message about inauthenticity is the author conveying through Vanessa’s character?

Explore the unstated and theorized reasons behind Dan’s lifestyle choices. What possible explanations might there be for his behavior and decisions? How do his choices reflect on those around him?

Compare Grandfather Connor’s self-perception to how others perceive him. What discrepancies exist between the two viewpoints, and what do they reveal about his character?

Examine why Grandmother Connor might have failed to shield Chris from Grandfather Connor’s anger. What implications does this have for her character and her relationship with her husband?

Explore the significance of the women routinely chatting in the kitchen. How does this activity impact the narrative and family dynamics? Does gossip serve as a source of power and agency for the women, or does it primarily function as a conduit through which Vanessa gains historical insight into her family members?

Uncle Terence points out the defense mechanisms of each family member but skips Beth. What might Beth’s defense mechanism be, and how does it manifest in the story?

Analyze the evolving concept of heroism in the novel. Who does Vanessa view as a hero by the end, and what qualities define heroism in the context of her family?